Miss guchud puchud

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Miss guchud puchud

I know i mess up things by overthinking, so i guess if i ever talked to you i have already mentioned that I'm an overthinker. Now is that my mistake if i notice minor changes in the people i talk to. If they hurt me by not showing the energy or reciprocating the same level of care that i do. And yes I don't know why i feels like a psycho when i want them to realise how they're draining me . It hurts when you notice everything but can't do anything for the things happen in your favour. All you can do leave the thing as they are or ask for what you want. can we say begging? this word is not correct to use here yes we can say that you are asking for that response you're worthy of. If they don't do that don't think its your worth, it's just their capacity. When you feel things are one sided there are 3 things you can do.


First one is let them know how you feel about the relationship it can be your friend, cousin or any sibling. By thought of doing this makes me think more that what if they don't Care about it the same way you do. Maybe they will don't give a shit about it. So, letting this feeling go we can apply second one thing. In short people move on. So basically you have to leave them without letting them know. this may left you again overthinking . Did they understand why i left them. By thought of doing this i may say that what if they don't even notice the void or will be there a void . It really hurts, when you so much about someone and they don't even notice those efforts the care. If they really don't want someone to be that serious about them let them know. Why would anyone waste their energy, love, prayers and everything else on them . If they do that again it's their responsibility of getting hurt. third one is much more destructive. I don't THINK people should consider that as option. So, do whatever you're doing without expecting something in return. I know this one is really stupid but that is what people do mostly without thinking about self-respect their ego anything. They just do that like worship . In My suggestion you don't have to endlessly give your attention, time, love, and opinions. Focus on who appreciates and value you that's all for today love and ummah💗





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